Four Pillar Relationship Test
A Self-Reflection Tool Based on the Four Pillars of a
Strong Partnership
Estimated duration
15 minutes
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Four Pillar Relationship Test
30 questions in
4 categories
Estimated duration
30 minutes
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About this test
With 30 questions per pillar, you can find out for yourself how you perceive the individual aspects of your relationship and to what extent you feel fulfilled in these areas. The questions are formulated so that you can answer them on a scale from "do not agree at all" to "agree completely". This gives you a personal mirror to see where your relationship currently stands and which areas could possibly be improved.
Why take the test?
In a relationship, numerous factors contribute to the happiness and satisfaction of both partners. But how well do you truly understand the state of your relationship? Are you satisfied with essential aspects such as trust, communication, intimacy, and shared values?
This test is designed to help you assess these fundamental areas by reflecting on how you experience your relationship. It is not a scorecard or judgment but rather an opportunity for self-discovery and growth.
Regardless of whether you're currently in a happy phase or facing challenges, this test will help you:
Identify strengths in your relationship.
Recognize areas for improvement.
Gain deeper insights into your needs and expectations.
Enhance communication and connection with your partner.
How it works?
Our relationship test is based on four key pillars of a fulfilling partnership:
Common Values, Goals, and Dreams - Do you share similar life aspirations?
Sexuality - Are your intimacy and physical connection fulfilling?
Communication and Conversation Culture - Can you communicate openly and honestly?
Trust and Loyalty - Do you feel secure and confident in your relationship?
Each pillar consists of 30 carefully crafted questions, allowing you to assess your relationship in-depth. The test uses a 7-point scale to help you reflect on your experiences:
Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Somewhat Disagree
Neutral
Somewhat Agree
Agree
Strongly Agree
Your answers provide a personal reflection, helping you see where your relationship stands and what areas might need attention.
Be Honest with Yourself
This test is most valuable when answered honestly and thoughtfully. There are no right or wrong answers—only an opportunity to recognize your true feelings and perceptions.
Take your time, reflect deeply, and answer based on your personal experiences. By doing so, you will gain valuable insights to strengthen your relationship and create a deeper understanding of your needs and desires.
Good luck with your self-reflection and on your journey to an even more fulfilling partnership!